Society is full of lies and bullshit it tries to feed us every day. If we’re insecure about how we look we’ll buy anti-aging cream and those pills that make cellulite go away. When we’re told that relationships / marriage is the ultimate goal in life, we buy that online dating subscription. When we’re told that photoshopped models are what we should aspire to we buy into size-ist bullshit, weightless programs, skin whitening, and that gym membership.
PEOPLE. You don’t need to listen to that crap. I wrote this list for myself when I was feeling so low and my self confidence had been through the ringer. It’s aaagggeees since I wrote this, and I’ve rediscovered myself in a whole new way, reinvented, and let my wings take me into this wild adventure of life. Celebrate yourself, just the way you are. YOU are an incredible human. I challenge you to read this, and write your own list… I love you.
- You are beautiful
- You are worth loving
- You are easy to love
- You have a beautiful big heart
- You are not too needy or too emotional
- You can be co-dependant and still independent at the same time
- You love your friends and care about them and how your actions impact them
- You have an amazing spiritual journey that is 100% valid
- You have beautiful intuitive and empathic powers that you should always trust
- You love moving and shouldn’t stop because it makes you happy
- You have an amazing gift for sharing love and happiness with others so don’t stop
- You are outgoing and gregarious
- You are also stable and balanced and in control
- You are beautifully grounded and content with who you are in yourself
- You don’t need anyone else to feel stability and groundedness
- It is 100% of if you do also feel grounded and stability with someone else too
- Things that don’t work out are not a reflection on you, just an opportunity to grow
- You are loyal
- You are caring
- You put others in front of yourself, but also know when to stop and where your boundaries are
- You have a gift of communicating what is going on for you
- You have a gift of the ability to share your feelings
- You are beautifully open and vulnerable, don’t stop doing this
- You are amazingly in touch with your body, celebrate this
- You are able to feel, and empathise with others picking up on what’s going on for them
- You are not too much or too full on
- Your little tornado of creative energy IS okay
- You are creative
- You are amazingly driven and have an incredible sense of passion
- Your ability to get things done is a gift
- You are also able to finish things, & you have steadiness in you to follow it all the way through
- You have a gift of being able to make amazing connections and networks
- You are perfectly bright, never let that colourfulness stop shining
- You are confident
- You are a goddess
- You have the courage and bravery to handle anything that comes your way
- You are gentle and approachable
- Having an active sex drive IS okay and normal
- Wanting and desiring intimacy is beautiful
- The desire to love and be with someone is hard wired into us/ normal, you’re lucky: double dose
- Magick and manifestation is beautiful spirituality and a beautiful path to follow
- You’re ability to take risks and seek adventure is amazing
- Your ability to catch yourself out when something doesn’t sit right with you is a gift
- Your willingness to work hard, compromise & build something despite hardness is phenomenal
- You are not a creepy predator (so stop being shy and standing in the corner and not even saying boo to a goose)
- You have talent
- You can sing
- Being an emotional being is a beautiful thing and rare and special
I hope you write your own lists <3 share them, burn them, celebrate them. You are MAGICK
xxx
Flossy
